Soft enough for me, but support for him
Being married you have a lot of give and take. My husband and I had a hard time picking a mattress because I love soft and plush but he prefers the support of firm. This was a good middle ground for us. It has great support on the sides, so when you sit on the bed you don't slide off. That really helps for when your getting ready in the morning. I would recommend this to anyone.